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Healthy Relationships Toolkit was formerly called "Dating Matters Toolkit"

Why Choose the Healthy Relationships Toolkit

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The Healthy Relationships Toolkit (HeaRT) Can Stop Violence BEFORE It Starts

HeaRT focuses on teaching 11 to 14-year-olds healthy relationship skills early and reducing risky behaviors, like substance use and sexual risk-taking. HeaRT is more than just a program. It includes multiple prevention strategies for youth and their peers, parents, schools, and neighborhoods to teach critical skills and create safe, supportive communities to help young people grow and learn.

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HeaRT is EVIDENCE-BASED

During middle school, students who participated in HeaRT were less likely to experience teen dating violence, sexual violence, bullying, physical violence, delinquency, as well as other negative health and behavior outcomes, above and beyond the effects of another evidence-based prevention program.

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HeaRT is LOW-COST

CDC provides all of the tools and materials you need to implement HeaRT at no-cost to communities, including a free online facilitator training.

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HeaRT is DESIGNED FOR EVERYONE

HeaRT was developed and tested in urban neighborhoods with varying backgrounds.

HeaRT reduced the risk for experiencing and engaging in violence and other risk behaviors by 3-11%, on average, during middle school compared to another evidence-based program.
Graphs depicting lower incidents of violence perpetration when implementing HeaRT

The graph depicts reductions in violence perpetration in the following areas: 8% in teen dating violence, 11% in bullying, 5% in cyberbullying*, 8% in physical violence, 6% in sexual violence, and 4% in sexual harassment

Graphs depicting lower incidents of violence victimization when implementing HeaRT

The graph depicts reductions in violence perpetration in the following areas: 10% in teen dating violence, 5% in cyberbullying, 3% in sexual violence, and 8% in sexual harassment

Graphs depicting lower incidents of other risk behaviors when implementing HeaRT

The graph depicts reduction in other risk behaviors in the following areas: 6% in negative conflict behaviors, 9% in weapons carrying, 9% in alchohol and substance use, and 8% in deliquent behaviors

Talk to Your Community About HeaRT

Download and share our Why Choose HeaRT accessible PDF to help communicate the benefits of HeaRT and dating violence prevention to community decision-makers and partners.

Testimonials

“Investing in the Healthy Relationships Toolkit enables you to create a sustainable and lifelong change. So, you have entire generations, entire communities, that are starting to reap the benefits of having children, young adults, and adults who don’t choose to behave in violent manners.”

– Prevention Lead

“I think the Healthy Relationships Toolkit has made it easier to have a good relationship with my parents because I’m not afraid to talk to them about things that I wouldn’t normally have wanted to talk about before the Healthy Relationships Toolkit because I thought they might think that I’m not supposed to be thinking about that. But now, with the program, I know that teenagers my age do think about things like that in relationships. The Healthy Relationships Toolkit definitely improved our relationship.”

– Youth

“I feel like not only has it empowered me, but it made me feel comfortable with being uncomfortable…It gave me tools and conversation starters and topics that I can discuss with my kids that I might not have wanted to discuss before, but they do it in a way that helps me not to be so uncomfortable.”

– Parent